Wednesday, July 13, 2011

A Journey of the Heart - At Home in Haiti




Our Team stayed in the home of Jeannette & Chris– the founders of Children In Need Haitian Project & School. Chris is Haitian born and Jeannette was born and raised in Lancaster County in Pennsylvania. They married and had one son, Sean – who is now approximately 16 years old. 


Our hosts were so gracious having all of us stay with them for duration of our mission trip.  It was such an honor to live with this Godly family, and continually hear how they responded to the calling of the Lord to move their family from the US to Haiti, their work in Haiti, the Children In Need Haitian Project, and their vision for so much more.  Theirs was truly a mission of love. 

A few years after they had moved, Chris began to expand their home – not only for their family’s use – but to enable groups to stay with them when coming to Haiti to work alongside of them.  This also gave employment opportunities to Haitian workers working with Chris to literally expand and build their home.

In Haiti there is no credit system at all – either you own land and slowly build a home, or possibly with some assets from selling a home or bringing funds from outside of Haiti – you may be able to start building a home.  Most Haitians work years and years, saving as much money as possible – then purchase supplies with cash, and either with family members or by hiring laborers begin building their home.  Due to the lack of any credit opportunities – they usually use all their money to start the foundation of their home and begin to work again, saving more money to continue building their home.  Because of this, most either live in small 1 room homes, or take many years, sometimes up to 25-30 to finally build a larger home – which will be used for future generations of their family.

Many who had either completed their homes or were years into the process, lost everything after the earthquake of 2010 – leaving them with no home, no funding, no opportunity to borrow any money to rebuild.  So the cycle began again – working, saving to put aside, building – knowing that years later they may not even have their home complete during their lifetime.


The home we were blessed to stay in is magnificent!  But I believe what made it even more amazing – was that all the work was done by hand, hiring Haitian people, giving opportunities for work, with a vision for the future.  The stone walls around the home, as well as the stone walls in the home (especially the dining room) were all handmade, hand cut and laid.  The massive doors, at the entrances as well as into each room, were handmade as well.



There was a garden area where much of the vegetables consumed for any meal were grown.  Anything else needed would be purchased at “Market”.  These were all stored in an area to be used as meals were prepared throughout the week. 



There were massive banana trees outside my window - growing in abundance as a major staple of food.  There were also avocado and mango trees - which we feasted on each night with dinner.  The more self sufficient a home can run, the better.



While we were there, Chris proudly showed us his newest project.  Behind his house, there was a guest house being built – with sleeping quarters as well as a conference room.  Once again, this project is giving employment opportunities to local people.  Chris has a vision of his home continually being used to serve the Lord in many ways.




Once we arrived, they took us around their home, showing us where each of us would be sleeping.  Some had beds of their own, others shared beds.  Some had air mattresses in rooms with others – but all were given a comfortable place to rest our weary heads after each day's travels, hiking, working, and ministering to the people of Haiti.  On one hand it looked like a beautiful bed and breakfast Inn set in the beauty of the Mountains of Haiti.  But reality hit when most hours the electricity went off – and although they had a generator – they used it sparingly to not overuse the batteries and spend unnecessary money.  Many times our bedtime was determined by the lack of lights.  Water is such a precious resource in Haiti – so learning to conserve every drop was a must.  My “showers” were 75% cold – 25% cool.  With water being pumped during certain hours and then filling buckets – pouring cupfuls sparingly over myself, washing quickly and rinsing even quicker.
 
Each night we returned to a cooked Haitian meal – prepared for us by loving Haitian women, and served by a young man.

Watching each of them tend to the home, making sure all our needs were met, with pleasant, sweet smiles, truly blessed us.  Each served with love and care – helping us to feel truly at home.  Our meals were always made from scratch, no instant, no microwaves, no take out!  Fresh eggs, breads, fruit & ceral each morning.  We had a variety of rice and beans with each dinner – always accompanied by a different sauce to be poured over it.  Fresh vegetables – plantains made in a variety of ways – even into porridge.  Yucca – White Sweet Potatoes – amazing.  So many more delectable meals – healthy, hearty and satisfying. 

And the coffee – Oh the coffee!  Many of us are avid coffee drinkers – and a good cup in the morning was a necessity.  And many times after a long days work to help us stay alert after dinner, as well.  One day we had the privilege of seeing coffee made from the green coffee beans -yes green!  They start out green – and aren’t roasted already – imagine that!  We watched as they were roasted over a fire outdoors – slowly changing color – green, tan, brown, red, black.  Each phase being a different strength.  The whole area outdoors had the fragrant aroma of roasted coffee.  Then small amounts of the roasted beans were placed in a wooden mortar and pestle – half my height – and crushed by hand. 








After being sifted and the process repeated for all the roasted beans – it was time to brew. No need for Dunkin Donuts, Starbucks, or Seattle’s Best. This was coffee!




When our entire team gathered in the dining room – it looked quite a bit different from the beautiful room we first saw upon our arrival.  But it was filled with life, stories, prayers, laughter and love.   



Each night we met in the sitting room with our Pastor, Mark and his wife Annabelle, for prayer and to debrief with our team.  It was a time for us to review our days work – share how privileged we were to be able to touch so many lives – and especially how the people of Haiti were touching our lives.  We prayed and shared about the many difficult emotions we were also dealing with after seeing the poverty and lack of care the government had for its people.  Then we would review our itinerary and plans for the next day’s activities.  Confirming what our departure time would be – being it took anywhere from 1 to 3 hours to get anywhere we were going - sometimes leaving as early as 5:30 am for our journey in the Tap Tap.


Rising was never a problem for me – since I had a personal alarm clock outside my window – which crowed loud and bold most mornings beginning at 3:00 am – then again at 5:00 am and continued into the morning hours.  After a few days, I saw the first crow as the beginning of my snooze alarm – giving me a little more time before I had to actually rise.



"Our Home” was a serene, safe, loving place to come back to, rest and be refreshed.  We were able to be ready for each day’s activities.  This home was filled with the love of the Lord – empowering each of us to continue on this amazing journey.




Monday, July 11, 2011

A Journey of the Heart - Departure & Arrival



Our Team of 15 from our church had been praying and preparing for this very moment – we were on our way to Haiti – to serve the Lord through the people and especially the children in Haiti.



We were divided into various groups to be picked up Friday morning at approximately 6am – to head to JFK Airport.  Our Youth Leader was coming by my apartment complex to pick up 4 of us.  All were amazingly awake – prior to breakfast or coffee – and anxious to get moving.


As we drove on the Van Wyck Expressway toward the airport we were all reading the signs designating which terminal we should exit for – according to airline and country traveling to.  Delta Airlines had an abundance of signs, listings, terminal numbers, etc., except no mention of Haiti – or anything that sounded like it could be included.  We picked an exit – wound around the various roadways and eventually parked, unloaded our luggage and started the cell phone calls to see where the rest of our team was – hoping they were at the same terminal.


Eventually we all connected – began gathering the vast array of luggage being taken – which included mostly carry-on bags for each of us – possibly 1 other bag – but then there were at least 1 or 2 additional bags for each of us to check as well.  This was our way of bringing supplies - children’s clothing, shoes, and sandals; medical supplies; food for the team’s stay; a complete suitcase dedicated for VBS – supplies, crafts, etc., which my daughter coordinated and prepared for the children in L’Espinasse.  We marked all our luggage with bright yellow masking tape, to make it easier to identify our luggage at the baggage claim in Haiti. 

Checking and scanning passports went pretty well – with only approximately 4 of us needing assistance getting our boarding passes.  We were on our way . . . all I wanted was something for breakfast and a large, strong cup of coffee.  As we headed toward the gate – we realized hours has passed – and we had just enough time to grab a quick Starbucks coffee and a muffin – and rush towards the gate.  As we were dashing down the hallway, a woman driving a passenger cart through the terminal yelled over to us, “Where are you headed?”  Being just a wee bit anxious, I almost answered, “Haiti” – when I realized she obviously meant, which gate?  We gave her our gate number and she said – “hop on, I’ll take you there.”  It’s a good thing – the distance from that point to the actual gate was much farther than we expected, through and around various hallways, and when we arrived – they were already boarding the plane.

How with us leaving my home at 6am for a 9:45 flight was it was already boarding time?  This told me that maybe, just maybe, everything didn’t go as smooth as it initially seemed when checking in.  But we made it, boarded, put carry-ons in the appropriated compartments and settled in for our nearly 4 hour flight.

I began to pray and journal, reflecting on this amazing opportunity I was given to travel to Haiti, serve the people, test my faith and how all this developed over the last 6 plus months.  I prayed that I would be still and allow the Lord to guide me and teach me all he wanted, while giving me the gift of serving those in Haiti – this was such a blessing for me.

With a snooze, some music, a bit of reading . . . we arrived at Port au Prince International Airport in Haiti.  We left the plane and headed to Immigration, filling out paperwork and being checked before heading to baggage claim.  There was one concrete building that everyone arriving from various flights where all gathered in; temperatures were near 100, no windows, no fans, no order what-so-ever when it came to getting our luggage.  A short conveyor belt (which gave a small opening to the outside world and a bit of the outside air) moved at high speed – with bags constantly being added – hitting barriers when turning, falling off onto the floor, creating piles and piles of luggage being attacked by hundreds of peopled searching for their bags.  If they came across another, it would just be tossed aside in a pile.  I stood there wondering, will anyone – just one person – honestly get the correct bag before we all melt into a puddle and flow out of this building?

But Sean, the son of our hosts in Haiti and Sharon, from our church who works directly with Children In Need, familiar with Haiti Chaos – just smiled and took control.  Carts, we need carts!  People stationed at various spots along the conveyor belt! Others running from pile to pile!  Yellow tape, yellow tape, yellow tape . . .  Slowly – ever so slowly – we gathered all the pieces and counted, double checked, counted and checked again.


There stood my Pastor, a man with such energy and stamina, and always something to say - looking like a lost soul and speechless!  Speechless and surrounded by mountains of luggage!

Eventually we pushed our way to the last check point.  They usually check every bag against every baggage tag given with our boarding passes.  With 30 plus bags this could definitely be a life-long event.  Sean was the only one who spoke fluent Creole, so he stepped over to the security officer and chatted a bit, hoping to get permission for us to leave as a “group” and not have to juggle bags vs. tickets.  Before I knew it – we were told to have our passports out and move quickly towards the exit.  All I could think of is we were headed towards some fresh air.

Hot, blistering air – was more like it.  We pushed carts, carried bags, pushed suitcases on wheels, and walk at least ½ – ¾ mile to where we were being picked up to go to our home for the next 11 days. 
We arrived at a “Tap Tap” – a large vehicle, similar to a large pick-up truck with bench seats, open sides and a tin roof.  The back has a caged-like door, that closes and locks, keeping us securely in and unwanted others out.  Our driver greeted us along with his assistant, a young man who would be traveling with us for our entire trip.  Immediately they took charge – climbing and loading all of our luggage onto the top of the Tap Tap.  Piled at a ridiculous height, with rope pulled throughout handles, over and under bags, and finally being secured (or so they said) – we were ready to climb aboard and find a seat.

Tap Taps buses or pick-up trucks serve as shared taxis in Haiti, many are gaily painted.  People run up waving to “hop on” as it travels along. 

The young man, sitting in the back – or hanging on the outside of the back – if totally filled – lets people on or off accordingly.  They are usually filled to capacity – and further – with additional passengers hanging on the outside as well.  Tap Tap literally means “quick quick” and when a passenger is either getting on or off the young man taps the side of the truck – signaling to the driver.  This particular Tap Tap, driver and assistant, were hired to be with us for our entire missions trip – taking us everywhere we needed – or at least as far as they could, before we had to get off and continue on foot.

Our ride from the airport to “home” would take anywhere from 2-3 hours.  Driving through the city of Port au Prince, we saw the devastation left from the earthquake of 2010 – destruction, poverty, the many tent cities so many are still living in, endless dust, garbage, people trying whatever they can do to survive by selling their farmed goods, crafts, artwork, etc. 


No traffic lights, no designated traffic laws or signs of any kind – cars, motorcycles, hundreds of people on foot, and animals crowding the streets – going in all directions.  As we got further from the city and closer to the country and mountain area – the paved roads ended and we were driving on dirt roads with major craters, rocks, boulders, etc. 

“Bumpy” is an understatement!  We bounced around that Tap-Tap, and although we were nearly thrown from our seats many times . . . not one bag on top was even shifted!

Heading further up the mountains – the beauty of Haiti took our breath away.  Both silence and gasps of amazement came from each of us as we saw the countryside; including the most amazing mountain ranges I could ever imagine.  Steep mountains, all rolling drastically into one another.  Small roadways wound around the mountains to take you up one side only to go down another – and continue this until you’ve reached your destination. 

The drop on the side of the unpaved, rocky, dirt roadway was severe – looking down miles along the side of the mountains.  And ever-so-often, a vehicle would come barreling down in the opposite side, or driving quickly behind us – honking their horn as a warning that they were going to pass our Tap Tap.  We literally held our breathe each time, until a few days into the trip realizing, somehow they knew how to drive these narrow dirt roads along these massive mountains with ease.

After traveling miles, dealing with traffic and the driving on unpaved, rocky roads – we finally reached the home we would be staying in at 6:00 pm.

From pick-up in Flushing NY until arrival at L’Espinasse Haiti – it took us 12 hours.  And we hadn’t even begun our official journey yet!

This was only the beginning . . .

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Home from Haiti

We returned from an awesome mission’s trip to Haiti last night - a part of my heart will always remain in that nation. I don't think stories and pictures will ever convey the true beauty of Haiti, the resilience of its people, the hope in the eyes of its children, the extreme poverty due to a corrupt and uncaring government, and yet the amazing faith that keeps these people going - focusing on their Lord each day rather than their circumstances.


Once I go through my "photos" I will attempt to share about each of our day's activities and the amazing people we were privileged to share 11 days of our lives with.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Haiti Bound











Heading for Haiti!

Lwanj pou Seyè Jezi Kris la.

Trip to Haiti officially begins today - Friday, June 24 at 6:00 am!  I’m looking forward to sharing about this amazing experience when I return. Please keep me, this trip, our team, and all we will serve in your prayers.
Bondye beni nou.

Check out my post on June 4 to see how this opportunity for me all came to be . . .

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Haiti Update











Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying,
“Whom shall I send?  And who will go for us?” 
And I said, “Here am I.  Send me!” – Isaiah 6:8

A short update on what’s been going on. 

Our team has been meeting with members of Children In Need Haitian Project (CINHP), learning a bit of Creole and discussing what tasks we will be involved in, preparing for this amazing opportunity that the Lord has given our church.  We will be in L’Espinasse, Haiti, high in the mountains outside Port-au-Prince, working with CINHP in various projects: helping with some construction in their school; painting the areas already completed; working with the children in some of their school programs; running a vacation bible school for the children; reaching out to the families of this area; assisting in a medical clinic; spending some time in Grace Village - a tent city that is still home to approximately 22,000 Haitian people – just one of the many tent cities in Haiti.

Our journey begins at 6am, Friday, June 24 – returning Monday evening, July 4.

I am so thankful for all who have supported me both financially and prayerfully, and ask that the prayers continue throughout this amazing journey.

Check out my post on June 4 to see how this opportunity for me all came to be . . .


Saturday, June 4, 2011

Called to Haiti

When I sit in quiet and wait upon the Lord, I hear him calling me to step up my walk, stop compromising, and stop playing games.  A natural reaction is to think that I don’t do any outlandish un-Godly things in my life – but not doing outlandish Godly things can be even worse.
I may not totally turn my back on God, but how many times do I purposely turn towards him each day?  I may not curse his name, but am I praising his name constantly during my day?  I know I should be doing something more, but am I seeking him to know what that is?
This past summer after my car accident, I was literally caused to sit, wait, pray, listen, and take a look at my relationship with my Lord, Jesus Christ.  Being home from work for months, and especially not being able to use this time to catch up with things at home or anywhere else, gave me hours upon hours of being still.  As I continued to heal, I prayed that the Lord would give me opportunities to grow in my faith and truly hear his voice when he speaks to me.
At the beginning of the year, I was given the opportunity to consider going on a mission’s trip to Haiti this summer.  Our church was invited to participate in a mission trip with the Children In Need Haitian Project, a small charitable organization that began out of a love for the Haitian people and especially the Haitian children.  Their mission is to help impoverished Haitian families by working closely with local pastors and community leaders to provide Christian education, medical care, and job training.  They are located in the area of L’Espinasse, Haiti, high in the mountains outside Port-au-Prince.
Members of my church were asked to pray on whether or not they felt they should be a part of this, and if so, each person should raise support for their portion of this upcoming trip.  I prayed and then I read about Haiti; its government, its history, its precious people.
This all happened very near the anniversary of the horrendous earthquake that took place in Haiti early 2010.  The anniversary resulted in many special televised presentations, documentaries, and interviews with the Haitian people.  As I spent time praying and watching many of these programs, I felt my heart cry for the Haitian Nation, its people, and most especially their children.  I remembered the sadness I felt when the earthquake had first hit Haiti last year, yet now my heart was grieving for these people so much more. 
The Lord had truly placed a strong desire in my heart to step out of my comfort zone and help reach out to those who are in great need in Haiti.  I was certain I was to go on this mission trip. 
Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send?  And who will go for us?”  And I said, “Here am I.  Send me!” – Isaiah 6:8

I put together a letter requesting support and sent it to family and friends.  Immediately I saw how the Lord was blessing my obedience by touching the hearts of many as support continued to pour into my mailbox, almost daily.  I received precious notes, email messages, and calls, with promises of prayers for both me and the team from my church going on this trip.

The Lord showed me that he had given me a chance to respond to a calling that is far beyond what is comfortable or what I felt could be possible.
I am excited with anticipation to see what the Lord will do through me in the lives of the many I will come in contact with during my time in Haiti.  I am so humbled and privileged to be given this opportunity to serve in His name.

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Be Ready

The world had been waiting to see the end result of what was predicted about May 21, 2011.  Some to laugh and mock those believing this teaching, while others were “preparing” by marching through the streets with signs, t-shirts, and tracks – stating this is the “Day of Judgment”.  Now the “date” has been changed and is expected to be in October.
I find sadness in each of these groups of people.  The mockers – were they laughing at this particular teaching or at the understanding that the Lord will actually someday come back – or both?  Those who believe this was the day – were they “preparing” in a way that is biblical and in agreement to what the Lord calls us to do while we are on this earth?
Scripture states: “Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come.  But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into.  So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.” – Matthew 24:42-44
This teaches us that the Lord Jesus will return; no one knows when and yet we are to “be ready”.
What does “be ready” mean?  It means to search God’s Word for truth – embrace the teaching that Jesus is Lord & Savior and accept him into your heart.  It means to continually study his Word, spend time in prayer and allow yourself to know, truly know, God.  It means to allow Him to conform you into His image - daily as you grow in faith and understanding.  It means to share your faith with others so many can come to the knowledge of Jesus Christ as their Lord & Savior.
It does not mean trying to out-guess what scripture says you do not know – it does not mean to cause many to panic and do foolish things – focusing more on a man’s teaching rather than the Word of God.  If the Lord say’s that he will come when we do not expect him, I would trust that we cannot figure it out, no matter what “system” we use.
I pray that if nothing else – the proof of this false teaching will cause many to wonder, search, & study to know the truth – God’s truth.
“And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.  And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.  And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.” – Romans 8:27-30
Be Ready.

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Unbroken












Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption
By: Laura Hillenbrand

Having been long interested in the resilience and commitment of veterans of war, I am drawn to stories regarding survivors of the atrocities of these wars.  Perhaps its hearing of the courage and will to persevere along with the determination to survive just one more day that reaches somewhere deep within my heart.
I heard an interview with Laura Hillenbrand, regarding her newly released book, Unbroken.  I knew at that moment this book was to be added to my “need to read” list.
This true story of Louis Zamperini drew me into a life of an unruly young boy growing into a rambunctious young man and finally coming into his own, only to be forced to grow up so much faster than anyone should have to. I was taken along on a journey of survival and strength beyond measure.
Sure, it’s a story of World War II, young boys becoming men, with a will to survive the horrors of Japanese POW camps.  But it’s so much more; it reveals the soul yearning to survive and always reaching towards redemption, but most times not truly grasping it, even running away from it.
The impeccable research by the author resulted in detail that brings the reader personally to each moment, almost able to smell the air in each scene.  So much so, Louie once told his friends, “When I want to know what happened to me in Japan, I call Laura.”

I find myself often thinking of Louie Zamperini – as a mother, would I have had the faith and strength to stay strong and hold on, even when faced with the news of my son’s most likely death; as a wife, would I myself have remained faithful for so long or turned away from the stranger now in my life; as a friend, would I have been able to remain true in spite of possibly losing the friend I hoped would return; as an American, touched at how much our military sacrifices for our nation’s principles and beliefs; as a Christian, knowing how true redemption can overcome more than we are physically and emotionally able to bear.
Redemption – the only way to complete healing and absolute true freedom.
A must read.

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Mother's Day

I can remember it as if it was yesterday – receiving a phone call from my doctor telling me that my pregnancy test was positive.  Way back then, we had to go to the Dr., then to a lab, and wait patiently for our test results – none of this quick “pink or blue” or “positive or negative” deal on a stick.  From that moment on, my anticipation of actually being a mother and raising a child was overwhelming and yet exciting. 


January 7, 1979 my son was born.  After 30 hours of labor – and an unplanned cesarean birth – nothing mattered except that I was given a precious boy to love, teach, guide, and share my life with!



Three and a half years later, on June 3, 1982 my daughter was born.  And although she was a planned cesarean birth – she decided to kick up some labor four days earlier than her planned birth date – just to be sure her birth would also have some stories to share.





For 32 years I have been blessed with the name “Mommy.”  Together my children and I have been through many trials, joys, blessings and absolutely loving moments.  I have so many beautiful memories and am still building on what will one day become a lifetime of wonderful stories to tell generations ahead. 



Becoming a grandmother – “Nonna” to my grandchildren – only added to the amazing experience of being a mother.  As of now, I have 7-year-old and 4-year-old grandsons and a 1-year-old granddaughter.  I can’t even begin to describe the joy this has been for me.



My children were given to me as a gift and I was given the opportunity to prepare them for whatever the Lord had in store for their future.  Wherever I may have failed, the Lord must have stepped in, since both my son and daughter have grown into God-loving, God-serving adults and are each amazing blessings to me and so many others.

So on this Mother’s Day, a day when most pamper and bless their Mom, I am already blessed beyond words with the privilege to have been given children and grandchildren to share along my journey.  I await each day with great expectation to see what the Lord has planned for each of us.


Friday, April 22, 2011

Good Friday

Tonight I will be going to church, in honor of Good Friday. It seems interesting that we call a day that our Lord & Savior was tortured and killed “good.”  Yet, once you know him, truly know him, you will rejoice in the unconditional, grace-filled, merciful love offered by a most Holy God, in order that we may be worthy enough to stand before him when our time on earth ends.  Now that is truly Good!
The days that lead up to the celebration of the Resurrection of our Lord, Jesus Christ, magnifies how blessed I am; that he called me to be his child, to walk in his Word, to share in the hope that only lies in peace through the blood of his cross, in which I have been reconciled to him.
So as I prepare for our Good Friday Service, I remember what this Friday truly means.  It’s the opening in time which eternity entered the depth of man’s soul; for a life darkened by failure, it means forgiveness; for a heart scarred with futility, it gives purpose; for a soul approaching the darkness of death, it means deliverance.
Jesus said, “It is finished.” With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit. – John 19:30
Oh, let me respond to all he has called me to be, let me hear his voice when he beckons me, let me never forget this day, Good Friday.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

So Blessed

It’s been a week since I returned from a 6-day cruise with my daughter.  Did I actually go away?  Was I swimming in the pristine waters of Mexico?  Was I served gourmet delights each evening for dinner?  Oh, how one week back at work can make all seem like such a distant memory!

Each summer my daughter and I usually take a vacation together, whether a week or a long weekend.  We enjoy getting away from our jobs & daily routine, going to a beach and/or pool, deciding each morning where we will be having dinner (food is always a main activity each day) and tons of chatting and laughing. 

Due to my car accident this past summer – just a couple of days before we were to head out to Montauk – we had to cancel our vacation.  We did so, hoping to reschedule something in the middle to late fall.  My daughter suggested we wait a bit and see if we could plan a cruise – giving ourselves a real treat.

We had an amazing time on Royal Caribbean’s Liberty of the Seas – cruising on sunny days with average temperatures of 90 degrees – sunning – reading – shopping - snorkeling – going to shows – dancing - and of course consuming more food than any human should attempt.  We visited Belize, Costa Maya and Cozumel.  Each had its own special flair of culture and beauty.


I had an absolutely amazing time!  As I think back on all the memories of this special vacation – I am constantly recalling the precious moments with my daughter.  I am so blessed to not only have her as my daughter, but as she has grown into such a beautiful young woman, I have also been given a dear friend for life. 


She brings me such joy and we are able to share so many moments together; our thoughts, dreams, tears and laughter.  Trusting and challenging one another comes so easily for us and sharing our faith brings such a depth to our relationship.  I have watched her grow into an amazing woman of God.  Her desire to serve the Lord, both in our church and all aspects of her life, brings such warmth to my heart. 

Whether visiting each other’s homes, sitting around sharing about our lives, going out for dinner or shopping, or vacationing together – the gift I have been given is priceless.  In this, I am so blessed!